Apr 22, 2026
If you've tried every productivity system out there
and still feel like you're failing at your own goals, this episode
is for you.
Tasha sits down with ADHD coach, Bianca Faricy, to get real about
why neurotypical goal-setting frameworks don't work for ADHD
brains, what burnout recovery actually looks like when you're
neurodivergent, and how emotion-first goal setting changes
everything.
From This Episode:
Bianca got her ADHD diagnosis at 47, burned out of a 25-year teaching career, and rebuilt her life from scratch. Here's what she and Tasha unpack:
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Why ADHD goal-setting is a completely different game than what you've been taught
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How a lifetime of masking disconnects you from knowing what you actually want
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The problem with discipline and willpower-based goals for high-achieving entrepreneurs
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What emotion-first goal setting looks like in practice
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Why "self-sabotage" isn't real - and what's actually happening when you hit a wall
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How nervous system regulation is the missing piece in your goal-achievement strategy
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Why ADHDers are ambitious as hell and just need the right tools
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The shame of feeling behind, and how to stop letting it run the show
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How boundaries for business owners are built on nervous system capacity, not willpower
Links & Resources
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Connect with Bianca: http://www.biancafaricycoach.com
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Follow Bianca on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancafaricyadhd/
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Boldly Becoming You Workshop: https://www.rulesandrebellion.com/boldlybecomingyou
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Book a clarity call: https://calendly.com/tashaskillin/clarity-call-30
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Follow us on Instagram: @rulesandrebellion